Some gay men find that they have trouble making friends with guys after they come out. Making new friends with women is easy, but when it comes to approaching a guy, its close to impossible to start a conversation. Thus, it is not possible to meet new guys and even a possible relationship. to tell if your guy friend is gay, notice whether he refers to other guys as attractive, which could be a sign that hes gay. Pay attention to how much he talks about women in a romantic or sexual way, since a lack of interest in women could suggest hes gay. If youre still unsure, try talking to him about gay men to see how he responds. how would you react if you discovered your best friend was gay? Dylan and lazlo tonks caged tackles this very question in this sweet and surprising short film. A lot of guys find their boyfriends online, and the internet is a great tool for gay teens. But meeting someone over the internet will be a little different than meeting someone in person. For example, a lot of people cast a wide net when trying to meet someone online and it is possible that the guy who seems so interested in getting to know you is also sending those messages to a bunch of. Apparently the new guy was gay and i didnt pick up on the fact that he thought we were on a date. When you want to go to a gay bar for once but your friends insist on going to the same ol.